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Wedding Anniversary

我居然忘记写一篇结婚三周年的文章,平安夜那天是我的结婚三周年纪念日。也不知道应该写什么。似乎感觉刚刚结婚,掐指一算已经三年,儿子都快会打酱油了。

Can you guys believe I forgot to post a super sentimental, mushy post about my third year’s wedding anniversary? I don’t even know what to say. It truly, truly feels like just yesterday I got married.

年关将至,似乎快到飘雪的季节,空气中有一点点冬天的感觉,让人很是怀旧 – 大二的时候,徐先森每周末从南京西北角的南审辗转到东南角的南财,一眨眼,好多年过去了。

Every December the whether is just turning cold and there’s a feeling in the air- a little bit of winter, but a little bit of nostalgia too- remembering what it felt like, so many years ago, to fall in love.

有不少纪念日似乎比结婚纪念日更有意义,第一次约会,first kiss,第一次说爱你等等。到后来的,第一次带徐先森见我的父母,第一次争吵,第一次独处等等。当然我并不记得这些事的具体日期,但是每件事情的细节我都记得很清楚。包括穿着,发型,每个细枝末节,,甚至每一份肉麻情书的具体内容。

When I think about the little anniversaries in our life, our first date, our first kiss, the first time we said “I love you”, I think I might enjoy these small markers even more than our wedding anniversary. These things are the things we’ve built everything on. And later, the first time I introduced him to my family; our first weekend away, our first fight.I of course don’t have most of these dates jotted down, but when I think back to them, I can pull them out of the depths of the past decade and recall specific details if I try hard enough. The skirt I wore. I can even remember what he write in the letter from him.

在这世界上,有这么一个人了解你,接受你,包容你,携手并肩,风雨同舟,是一件很特别的事情。三年的时间,有欢乐也有争吵。有时候,会被你随意的一句话,惹炸毛,有时候,甚至觉得你卑劣的小脾气,也很可爱。最好的周年庆礼物,应该就是那句 “我还是那么的爱你。”

To have someone who sees you and gets you and accepts you, who has seen the very worst parts of you, who has been everything to you, and who has let you be you, to be the best you you didn’t even know was inside of you…that is a special, special thing. 3 years represents so much- hard work and good times (and bad times) and everything in between. It’s a period of great growth and change. It’s a deep, passionate, quiet, comfortable love. It’s holding someone in your arms, in all of their flawed imperfection, and saying “I see you. All of you. And I love you all the same.”

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11 Comments

  1. 没享受过二人世界不觉得遗憾?

    1. 二人世界有好多呢 天天过~

  2. 幸福啊 写不写纪念,只是一种形式罢了

    1. 大家都要幸福~

  3. 新年快乐

    1. 同乐~

    1. 哈哈 你加油

  4. 幸福一家三口,看你们的长相,能再生一个女儿吗?说不定以后还能结成亲家什么的。

    1. 还是从良老师给亦轩再生个妹妹吧!

      1. 不符合条件啊

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