幸福像花儿一样绽放

哼着轻快的曲调,一首《铃儿响叮当改编》的Happy Single Dog’s Day! 献给各位单身狗~

Single dog, single dog, single all the day.

See AV, hit the plane, they’re doing all the day.

Hey! Single dog, why not be a gay?

No more wait, no more afraid, make him be a gay!

在这个美好的日子,办公室的段子也越来越没有下限,或者说一直都是这么没节操,今日尤甚。金公举送给BF两支钢笔做礼物,BF写了她的名字发来给她看,意思是这笔略粗,我们的费天屎立刻答复,你不就是喜欢粗的吗?

午休时间,Ethan一通电话,假装来找我拿油卡,其实是来给我送花,LOL,从办公楼跑下去,看到副驾驶的玫瑰,立刻献上香吻一个,某猪每次都是假装高冷的拒绝,然后再把脸蛋凑过来。

玫瑰

我跟Ethan相识已经十二年有余,几乎占据了我们的半个生命。 Continue Reading

最好的亲子教育是陪伴

周五的时候闲着看了《爸爸去哪儿》,这一期是小孩子要和爸爸分开去土楼选房间,小屁孩们一个个哭得稀里哗啦的,林永健偷偷抹眼泪,我也差点跟着流出眼泪,估计只有为人父母,才能体会爸爸们此刻的心情,“希望在娃最需要自己的时候,陪伴在他们身边”。

Ivan快两岁了, 从蹒跚学步到来去像风一样自由,从咿咿呀呀到牙牙学语,日子如白驹过隙,儿子已经慢慢长大高出了我的腰际。应广大同事的要求来梳理一遍Ivan的糗事。

Ivan会专挑Ethan的背尿床。从小就没有把尿,不知是不是因为这个,Ivan较早的自己会喊尿尿,夜里也基本上不尿床,所以我可以很放心的让他穿满档裤。不过也有特例,小娃不下五次尿尿到他爸爸背上。印象比较深刻的一次是我在写博客,他爸爸好销魂的一声,原来小娃本来在床上玩的蛮开心的,径直走到趴在床上玩iPad的Ethan身后,对着他的美背,尿了一发。我觉得他是故意为之~ Continue Reading

幸福之家

题目缘于偶然听到的一首歌,名字就是《幸福之家》,歌词附在文末。

前提是,端午佳节,我公公从福州回到了苏州,跟我们小住几天。从我二月份写的这篇文章,可以了解到我那会跟我公公相处得并不是很融洽。但是这次,很特别,我公公没有对我黑着一张脸,更没有一直指责我们这里不对那里不好。就在三月份,我们为了讨好他,给了买了一只西铁城的手表,他也没有像这次回来这么好相处。这两天,我婆婆有点咳嗽,闻不了油烟,我公公接替了大厨的工作,天天做好晚饭等我们下班回家。前天晚上做了一道酸菜鱼,不知道是不是因为听到我跟我爸爸打电话,说怎么没有给我打包一份酸菜鱼带回苏州。看到桌上摆好的那道菜,莫名的有点感动,有点温暖,我公公割鱼片到煮熟,应该花了不少时间。 Continue Reading

THIS IS MARRIAGE

Not surprisingly, Ethan didn’t prepare me a gift for our 3rd wedding anniversary even though I have sent him a small gift and a card to show my thanks for three years accompany. But, none of this shit matters.

Three years ago today I woke up at 3:00 in the morning. I was getting married. Then, I went into the bathroom, and started brushing my teeth. I looked into the mirror and was already smiling. I’d been waiting for this day for a long time. And Ethan just showed up the door of my bedroom. He arrived an hour early as scheduled. Maybe, he was eager to bring me home. I was 24 at that time. That’s pretty young, but certainly old enough to get married.
When Ethan and I met we were 16, senior year of high school. We both tried hard for the college entrance examination. Hard work produced good results. Ethan entered the Nanjing Audit Institute and I was going to Nanjing University of finance and economics. Then the story begins.

Here’s a few photos to show you what we’ve been doing this weekend.

Being a new mom and working full time, I’m staying super busy! But I had a quiet afternoon. Sunday morning, Ethan gets up early, watching TV, playing with our son, and waiting for me to wake up. After lunch, Ethan is reading books, and taking some notes from reading. And my son is napping. I lay down beside my son, and watching them. It’s a quiet afternoon. No words, but I like the feeling. I had that same feeling three years ago, and I still have that today.

Life goes by so quickly, and by the time we got married, we’d already been together for three years. And we will live together for another 3 years, or 30 years, or lifetime.

笔记本的键盘坏了,写文章传图片一直在自动输入字母sssss,无数个s,就这样吧,等我笔记本修好了再来传图。

Role as a Wife

Your role as a wife is NOT to change your husband, but to love him.

今天在翻书,偶然间看到这句。在婚姻中,很多时候,我们都在尝试改变自己的老公,其实他那些结婚前就改不掉的坏习惯:大到不关心,不体贴,不求上进,不思进取,小到不洗澡,不洗脚,想指望婚后改是不可能的。

昨天何姐姐分享了一条消息到朋友圈,所谓贱男人就是朋友圈从不发自己媳妇消息不说,而且媳妇发的每个消息几乎都不关注!却有时间给别的女的点赞,评论,互动。然后又叨叨婚后生活的种种,闹情绪之类的。其实她还比我长个三岁,为什么她就那么的看不开?

我至今仍未相信她出轨的闺蜜之前也截屏给我,这么一篇文章《看你的女人幸福还是不幸,便是要看你睡着后,她是否依然醒着,或者睡着,甚至流泪》。好朋友说她总是在半夜偷偷的抹眼泪~ 所以得知她出轨后,我居然有点释然,过得不开心,分开才是最好的。

文章里面提到:只因女人依然永远渴望被温柔对待,耐心理解。一个男人,理解不了自己妻子为什么有那么多疲惫与痛楚,这是罪过吗?在这个需要男人不断拼搏的时代,谁又敢说他们是罪过呢。只因再好的男人也不懂女人,欲望都市里那些女子,才会彼此视若生命。 她们俩这是在给我敲警钟。我只能说一句:如果没有经历过,就永远不会了解。 Ethan今年倒是顺风顺水,事业方面,虽然忙了点,好歹有了点眉目;成家方面,我这个好妻子跟牙牙学语的儿子陪伴。这么一想还真是羡慕他的~ 虽然没有明说,他自从大二开始跟我谈恋爱以来,慢慢的成熟起来了,朝着好爸爸好丈夫的方向发展。

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