落黄不是无情物

来了两三天冬季的感觉,又升温了,可悲的是今天又开始飘雨了, 淅淅沥沥的小雨日日夜夜的下,今年初冬生生嗅了一丝黄梅天的味道。雨水跟雾霾的双重洗礼,我周末刚洗的车又白搭了。真希望快点下雪,银装素裹的街道真心美,虽说现在的落叶纷飞也挺有意境。Anyway, 冬天已经来了,下雪还会远吗?

落黄不是无情物

落黄不是无情物

苏大本部,这冬天过得暖洋洋的,连拙政园的荷叶都没有败~我相信这还是深秋~ Continue Reading

全城封堵

今天早上一如既往的去买豆沙包跟豆浆,猛一回头看到治安巡逻队牵着狼狗(穿着黑色警犬的衣服)在巡逻,吓死本宝宝了。也来说说咱大苏州这三天的近况的,站台上站着“红袖章”,公交车上坐着“守护大神”,高架上有警察叔叔开着摩托飞驰,俨然为早高峰的人们保驾护航。李克强大大来苏州会见东欧16国领导人,“史无前例、史上最强”的领导人规模,真心为难了咱们这些苏州屁民。一刻钟的车程在路上转悠两个小时也到不了家,这边封路那边拥堵,开车的效率真心比不上11路了。东环高架段外地牌照禁止驶入的情况下,早晚上下班高峰时分,依旧是全城拥堵~ Continue Reading

丑人多作怪

起因是这样的,一个高中同学在群里面大呼不能给跟自己真心相爱的女人婚姻,让这个女人陪在她不爱的男人身边,如何痛心疾首,感叹自己结婚太早等等等。口气中还带着吹嘘,显摆的意味~都跟自己老婆生了两个娃了,才发现自己老婆不是真爱,真是悲哀~而且她老婆家境很好,他就是靠着他老丈人才有了现在的工作。或者是男人有钱就变坏吧?

现在是世风日下到这种地步了,出轨还这么得瑟。不过我想骂他的主要原因是这人的长相,脸型就是倒着的梯形,一眼就只能看到满是痘的双下巴,满面油光,身材自然更是膀大腰圆,肚子鼓鼓,看着就肾虚,竟然来了个肉体精神双双出轨。她老婆看上他都挺不容易的,居然还来了个跟他真心相爱的第二个女人。现在的女人都这么重口味了吗? Continue Reading

苏城-秋雨绵绵

苏城断断续续,淅淅沥沥,洋洋洒洒下了两个星期的雨,持续三四天冻成狗的状态后,冷空气打不过暖空气,又升温了。早上吃完早饭,在这湿嗒嗒,潮叽叽的秋雨中走到公司,竟然有种汗流浃背的感觉。太阳公公快出来吧,每天飘点太阳花,我都快发霉了。下雨的最大坏处就是,周末我不得不宅在家,而我是个宅不住的人。最近的空气指数特别差,雾霾遇到缠缠绵绵的秋雨,浑浊的空气总觉得鼻子跟喉咙都不舒服,昨天早上的一场大雾,上班路上苏城彻底变成了堵城。

拉着Ethan去陪我买唇膏,我准备买个咬唇妆款式的,Ethan嫌我左试右试,左挑右挑的,买的时候离我有八丈远,还不断的在远方一脸无奈的催我快点选,我心一抖,居然买了一支珊瑚粉的,我一直最鄙视的口红颜色:粉色,而且是淡淡的公主粉,严重击碎了我这颗女汉子的心。下次绝对不跟粗鲁的臭男人一起去买!

@从良未遂 图以上 欢迎点评 忽略我那一撮撮的刘海~

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你好,十月

国庆假期就这么嗖的过完了。之前准备订好了去杭州的酒店,不过计划赶不上变化,整整七天的日程安排就只有一项:在医院陪Ivan挂水。小娃生病最累的是父母,估计得用身心俱疲来形容最近的我。Ivan肺炎住院挂水11天,出院后又出了荨麻疹,我天天奔波在医院。作为新手妈妈,我也是学会了如何应对小娃咳嗽,小孩咳嗽三天吃药还没有好转的话,就得去医院复查。我家这次主要是去儿童医院配药吃了一个多星期还是一直咳嗽,再去医院查的时候已经转成肺炎了。看到小娃天天挂水,脸上好不容易养起来的奶膘都没有了,瘦了一圈。这时候真希望自己是个万能的妈能代替娃生病。这两个月事儿可真不少,但愿这一切早点过去,我家Ivan可以早点快快乐乐地玩耍,祈祷。 Continue Reading

Growing Up

“Everything is more complicated than you think it is right now. And the only way you come to know is through experience. And that’s what this whole process of growing up is all about”. “I just want you to know that even when it’s hard , and no matter how much it hurts right now , it is not the end of the world”.

又走西厢的博客看到如上这段话,我只想让你知道,即使很难,无论现在有多痛,这也不是世界末日。

小学的一个夏日,第一次自己一个人在家,很害怕,开着门怕坏人会进来,所以把门紧紧关上;关上门,又胆小怕鬼,搬了个凳子坐在客厅门后面,从门缝里观察外面不时走过的路人,一刻都不敢放松。那时候我以为,这就是世界末日。 Continue Reading

一切都不好,但好像一切又很好

Last weekend Ethan went to Shanghai to attend a meeting at Shangri-La. It was supposed to be a quick fun trip. But as it’s weekend, I bought a ticket and went there together with him. We ate some great local food, and went to shopping at the mall.

It’s supposed to be quality happy hours. But it’s not. How was your weekend? I hope it was much better than mine!

I tried to let go of the anxiety, knowing there was literally nothing I could do. But there was a constant nag in the back of my mind. I started thinking about some of favorite things. It’s funny how we can find something to complain about so easily when there are so many things that we have to be grateful for. I think sometimes we just forget to stop and think about the little things that make us happy. Life is busy, I get it. But slow down every once in a while and try to appreciate the small things. You won’t regret it.

Weekend

I think it’s okay if people complain, kind of.

I used to share only the happiness on social media, and try my hardest not to complain as I don’t want anyone to know my pain or discomfort. I laughed at those who constantly complain how the world has wronged them. But now I think it’s perfectly acceptable to share the details of the not-so-pretty parts of life with close friends.

When complaining, I’m seeking for advices, or am attempting to talk through something. When I have discussions with new moms we usually agree that sometimes often being a mom is hard. Then we try to brainstorm ways to make it easier on ourselves. We share ideas and swap stories and triumphs and failures. Continue Reading

Embrace 2015 – March

Two months down, and ten more to go. I have just returned to work after the 10-day holiday during spring festival, it’s already March. I want to use this word “EMBRACE” for March. As I can see this month could be joyful yet difficult.

February has been a month of adjusting to our new daily rhythms as a family of five. My husband’s father has come to Suzhou and stayed with us in February. As he will leave at the end of March, I mostly keep silent when he is babbling. In his eyes, we have been doing all things wrong. You should do this, and should not do that. Please stop your damn bellyaching!!! I am getting sick to see his poker face every day. The best way to deal with him is to stay away. I don’t want to stay at home, when he is at home.

Hope everything will be OK in March. Between work, and being with the baby… the time is not just enough. This February, my husband and I barely ate dinner together at home. I had to hold the baby and watch in hunger as my husband’s father ate. Needless to say, his father sat at the table, and ate at least an hour.

My husband’s father will leave soon. Really look forward to that.

我的卡通头像My Avatar in Cartoon Style

哈哈,年关将至,收到一份新年礼物,一个老外给做的头像~哈哈,我很喜欢呐~已经迫不及待的加到了我的右边栏~

足足等了半个月,总算发给我了。居然把我的酒窝都画出来了,赞一个。唯一不满意的是,居然加了签名,说是她的版权。有没有什么修改意见?我让她再改改什么的。