望求菩萨来点化,渡我素贞出凡尘

望求菩萨来点化 渡我素贞出凡尘
——可爱 可歌 可泣的异地恋
君住长江头,我住长江尾,日日思君不见君,共饮长江水。
信情能比金坚,怎奈睹物又思人。
爱情在分隔两处的恋人身上,既甜蜜又折磨。

没有朝夕相处的陪伴,走在人潮拥挤的马路和商场,看见成双成对的别人,虽然名义上有个男(女)朋友,可是自己还是孤身一人。

在公司,被领导责备了,心情委屈,好想找个人倾诉,可这个人却不在身边;

签了一单成功了,公司奖励了一大笔分红,特别想开一瓶好酒,去曾经看都不敢看一眼的豪华餐厅订个位子,可是坐在对面的那个人,他(她)好远。 Continue Reading

逝者已矣,生者如斯

Last month, I had a sweet friend leave to be with Jesus. It was a car accident on her travel in Yunnan. The driver is drunk. I HATE all the drunk drivers as they are TRULY killers on the road.

I met her when I was on my honeymoon in Europe. After getting to know each other, I found her father is a business partner of my father. She was truly beautiful inside and out. And she has a little daughter, under the age of two. I cried when my father told me that she was died in the car accident. And her husband is not kind to her parents after her death. He even didn’t allow her little daughter to attend her funeral. All losses are the same in some ways and different in others. I can’t imagine what her parents are going through. They are getting old, with no support from her husband. And her little daughter won’t have a chance to know her mom, as she is only 1 years old and she cannot remember things now. All these literally gives me pain all over. I ask everyone who reads this post could pray for her and her family.

When I think over that she is a new mom, I cannot stop crying. And we could not believe in anyone, even our dearest husband.

I am too scared to write this post in Chinese. Hope everything will get better soon. I tried to let it go, knowing there was literally nothing I could do. But all these things constantly repeat in my mind. I used to share only the happiness on social media, and try my hardest not to share bad memories as I don’t want anyone to know my pain or discomfort. I laughed at those who constantly complain how the world has wronged them. But now I think it’s acceptable to share the sad moments of life.

上个月,我有一个朋友去世了,那会她在云南旅游,一场车祸,从此天涯远隔。司机是醉驾,我没有一刻比现在更痛恨醉驾的司机,他们都是杀人犯。朋友在医院抢救花费了20万,而司机只赔偿了4万,他的父母将朋友带回老家入土为安,路费就花费了3万。

我是在欧洲度蜜月的飞机上遇到了她。在彼此熟悉之后,我发现她的父亲是我父亲的生意伙伴,自此我俩就熟悉起来。她很漂亮,有一个不到两岁的小女儿。当我父亲告诉我她在车祸中死亡时,我当时就哭了。她的丈夫在她去世后,对她的父母很不友善。他甚至不允许他们的女儿参加她的葬礼。我无法想象她的父母正在经历什么,他们日渐衰老,却没有女儿女婿的扶持。她的小女儿甚至没有机会认识自己的妈妈,因为她只有1岁多,还不记事。一联想到这些,我会忍不住哭。希望每个看到这篇文章的人都会为她和她的家人祈祷。

在她去世后,她的丈夫的所作所为,让我觉得我们无法相信任何人,甚至我们最亲密的丈夫。

我原本是用英文写的这篇文章,很害怕翻译成中文。看到朋友的不幸,而我无能为力,所有这些事情在我的脑海中不断重复。我尽我所能不分享不好的回忆,因为我不想让任何人知道我的痛苦或不适。以前我很讨厌悲天悯人的文章。但现在我倒觉得这是可以接受的。希望一切都会很快好起来。

Stephen Hawking, May he Rest in Peace 比起霍金的智商 我更欣赏他心的自由

I once closed my door alone and watched a film called “Theory of Everything” alone, because I admire the searching and analysis sprite of the unknown and inexhaustible thing.

Stephen Hawking believes in atheism but he is like a evangelist. He did not create steam engine to bring the industrial revolution like Carter, nor did he design computers with the mathematical soul of Turin’s miraculous version, so he was quite different from ordinary pragmatic scientists.

He is a philosopher who uses scientific methods, boldly conceives and validates, analyzes time and space, explores the meaning of human existence, and seeks connections between being and being lost.

Due to the current inertia, people like to speak with the facts they have seen. Therefore, there are some people who disagree with Hawking and regard him as an unscrupulous person.

However, in the big world, whoever can see the nature of it, the utilization rate of the human brain is so few. Therefore, I believe there should be bold and novel speculation and thinking.

There are many things in this world that are so coincidental. When the young Hawking is eager to explore the truth, he is suffering from a progressive illness. All this seems to imply something.

Now that Hawking has died, no one knows where he has gone. However, the road to discovery and search has not stopped and the WILL will indefinitely last forever.

My fingers can still be active, my brain can still think, I have the ideal of lifelong pursuit, loved and be loved, my loved ones and friends, and I have a grateful heart…

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伤离 | 月旦评

已春
依不御寒意
终凉中入白

裸足 缓落于幽谷
鲜血之色没踝
曼珠沙华无垠
仰见飞沙红尘

三生石上
烙印之名入刻三分

河岸桥头
立老妪 提汤桶
乃忘川之水沸而为汤
言 饮者可得重生
然前尘既往
君饮否?

乃不忍
纵身跃而入川
为不渝受千年炼

远观伊渡桥而过百
不得见

方悟 忘川之水痴泪所积
其酸楚
可化石骨
噬魂 锥心

千载过后
伊已饮尽川汤
寄望能得汤中之思
不枉 十世之煎熬

是梦也
千万年
未逢再者
唯彼岸之花常艳

娱乐访访古

“小妹妹送我的郎啊,送到了大门儿北啊!一抬头我就看见了王八驼石碑啊。若问这王八犯了什么罪啊?只因为他说相声,桌子挡住了腿。”
——小岳岳的《送情郎》

由于前段时间疯狂回顾德云社的经典段子,起初没在意岳云鹏的一段小曲儿,怎料得,太过于魔性,被牢牢地脑内循环,索性写出来,求解脱。

现在的大朋友们和小朋友们除了戏校或专业人士,大概都不会再碰传统戏曲和民间小调了。失传我是不担心的了,这么多大大小小的戏剧和戏曲学校,每年都有好多孩子报名学习,前途也好。不过,普通大众并不愿意去看去听,流行歌曲会被翻唱了烂了、吐了,选秀照看。

传统的戏曲也该拓宽一下认知了,小朋友们也要知道《沙家浜》是什么,也能哼上几句黄梅小调才好。

我是差点进了戏校的人,爸爸会戏,所以我是深有感触。

当经济发展到了一定程度,文化的发展和历史的传承是也会有水涨船高之势头的。

记得当年有一位刚满22岁的同事跟我聊天,说一天在地铁上听几个00后在娱乐八卦,听歌没聊二次元,竟然听的是周杰伦和林俊杰,她说她放心了。虽然是一句玩笑,但道理是通的。

就像家有老的宅子,翻一翻,也许不经意哪个角落里会滚出两块儿银元来

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Happy Farmhouse 太湖边,漫山岛的农家乐

I went to see the 漫山岛 to have a dinner beside the beautiful Taihu Lake last weekend. It was by far the best restaurant I visited in 2018. If you ever have the chance to visit Suzhou, I highly recommend this place. All the dishes are so fresh and delicious, though they may not look that good on photos. Now I prefer to eat at the farmhouse. All the restaurants in the city is so boring. Their dishes look so good on photos, but all these taste the same to me. I am in love with the fresh cooking style in the countryside.

上周末我去看漫山岛吃农家乐,坐落于美丽的太湖边。这是迄今为止我在2018年访问过的最好的餐厅。如果你有机会参观苏州,我强烈推荐这个地方。所有的菜都非常新鲜和美味,虽然他们在照片上看起来不太好。现在我更喜欢在农家吃饭。感觉城市里所以的彩色都很单调。他们的菜肴在照片上看起来不错,但所有这些对我来说味道都一样。我更偏爱农家菜新鲜的烹饪风格。

Marinated shrimp with Wine

醉虾

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When this dish is brought on our table, the shrimps are still alive and kicking. It tastes good.

虾子上桌的时候是活蹦乱跳的,看得超级有食欲。

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“一入吃鸡深似海,从此农药是路人”——观《头号玩家》有感

荧幕的神奇在于,当你凝视之时,会来到一个全新的世界,试听感官之外,思我所思。

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一条好的剧情线索和动人或唯美的画面,再或者震撼人心的场景音效都是一部影片的基本。一本好的影片,其实你认为它好,是要能带给你一些认同感。最起码,你懂得当中所渗透出来的意思,它在引导大众什么样的趋向——对事物的价值趋向。

所以,每个人都有特别喜欢的影片类型

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憧憬高尚爱情的人,喜欢文艺影片或者轻喜剧;也有一些人崇尚纯粹和热血,那么他们可能会是战争片的粉丝;偶像时装片也有市场,因为很多人透过影片研习时尚。 Continue Reading

天行九歌矣

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诸子百家,我只服韩非

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王道德儒
人性为善,循循诱之,天下大同。
仁爱人,而后有孝,孝为本,而立纲常。
父子君臣,成规矩方圆。
修身、齐家、治国再平天下,一脉而来。

霸道邢法
世人皆恶,防微杜渐,王孙亦然。
邢论典,重而严惩,刑连坐,无得漏网。
违法必惩,则普天皆畏。
严刑、峻法莫敢言,治乱安内。

儒以德治,行王仁道。望臣民感而恩之,君贤民朴,求世事之向荣。然,美也,虚无而缥缈,梦则幻。可得锦上而添花,而非乱世之良药。
故,儒不以为本,乃盛世催化工具尔。

刑法可平异己,防变。乱世重器,斩荆棘,除乱党,安社稷。但法过厉,内并未能安,或瞬息之势,非长久之计。
遂,峻法非长效,仅乱世平定之快剑矣。

诸子百家,各行其道。一味拘泥非能成正果,当效韩子王孙,集大成,感世之变化,方能成势,而为。

Enjoy Best Moment of Plum Blossom Scenery 梅海之约:乍暖还寒时,春意料峭中

乍暖还寒时,
春意料峭中,
相约十里梅林,
繁花如海荡漾,若雪满地;
层层叠叠,犹如风吹麦浪。

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Hope everyone is doing great. Workdays are going by fast! Sometimes, I need to work overnight to get everything done. I try to relax on weekend. My parents came to Suzhou for a visit. I am so fortunate to live not too far away from my parents. We could get together every month to travel or have dinner. It is great to enjoy good food and good company with my parents. The weather at Suzhou is more spring-like this month.

首先祝大家工作日愉快。这周的工作日过得超快,我一直在通宵加班。周末必须放松一下。这周,苏州的天气更像春天,或者说春天已经来了。老爸老妈周末来了苏州看梅花。很幸运,老爸老妈住的地方离我不远,两小时的车程,我们可以经常一起周末周边游,有父母陪伴的周末时光,是我这周的一大乐事。

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择其长技而师 莫事事而师夷

近期读得 @crowflew《谁来守护公正》一文。

“师夷长技以自强”, 自打洋务运动风风火火之期,国人就深深明白这道理。

若能学得老美的制衡立国之术也是循循善诱的良苦用心。 不过纵观中西历史,民主之先进我不谈论,课本中早已万字千文,就着 @crowflew这篇文,我们来单论学美国这事儿。

本次,不说他在朝鲜和中国南海的所做作为,也不论其在阿富汗、叙利亚的种种战略意图。只觉其,算是一个怀揣梦幻童话的美好少年,憧憬着一切的美好和纯洁,就像迪士尼一样去得一个处平等、团结的共和之国,以民主的方式。不管先前如何凶险和坎坷,王子、公主最后总能过上没羞没臊的温馨生活——开句玩笑。

说美国“美”者,意何如?国富、兵强、科技领先、潮流前线。论“三权分立”也好,选举投票也罢,皆不为其富国强兵,科技领先之根源。

说到底,美国也没有“民主”到根儿上,政府、国会、法院就能决策美国和美国在全球的战略?谁说了算,早已不是什么秘密。

民主,作为一种政治信仰,它的诉求和初处类似一些其他的终极主义,不是一盘热腾腾的摆在你面前的披萨,而在遥不可视的某处。因此,在经济发展为第一要务的当下,也莫把西方政治、意识形态神话,其之所以为强,和历史机遇进程及历史选择有大关联。 Continue Reading