祖辈爱情(一):陪伴是最长情的告白

聊爱情
其实爱情在我来说,已融入普通的生活,没有轰轰烈烈、惊天动地。细枝末节即为爱情,不足道。
不过,既至七夕,恰逢大伟哥爱情征文大赛 ,那我不妨说说家中老一辈的故事,在那个战火纷飞年代里,志同道合、同甘共苦、生死与共的爱情。

第一篇 同甘共苦

我非所谓红三代,但老家在苏中革命老区,爷爷奶奶生在乱世,经历了那段艰苦的历史,也算历经坎坷,他们的故事我也是从小听到大。

爷爷出生贫苦,五岁丧父。曾祖是本分农民,但因不满还乡团欺压乡里,言语上起了冲突,被背后冷枪,不治而逝。怜,遗下曾祖奶及二幼子。祖奶性情刚烈,为子不改嫁。终日劳苦,备受欺凌。不惑之年,背已不能直,虽苦,但二子年幼时已明是非。徒凭双手育儿,长子学医,二子后从商。

我爷爷是二子,因家中变故,便从私塾退学,扶母养家,供兄长读书。从小吃得苦中之苦,人也极为聪明。

奶奶出生富农,外曾祖组织乡里壮劳力,推独轮车为大户跑单帮。家中置了粮油茶食店,日子算不得富贵,但能温饱。儿女也多,三子三女,我奶奶是老幺,在同辈人中也算得是娇惯出生。

爷爷奶奶相识之时,奶奶是地方文工团文艺干事,(多说一句,这也大概就是为什么我父亲爱戏曲,乃至我从小喜爱音乐的根源),而爷爷仍在打零工,给周边的住家修屋盖草。照理是门不当、户不对。但在那个年代,接受了革命思想的灌输和动荡洗礼的奶奶偏偏就看上了年幼丧父,前途渺茫的爷爷,不顾家人阻挠,应当是毅然决然嫁给了家徒四壁的爷爷。 Continue Reading

和西子湖的亲密接触:“曲院风荷、断桥残雪”

Suzhou and Hangzhou are the paradise on earth. Now Hangzhou is the epitome of the southern culture. I was born and raised in Gusu where there are top gardens in my city, and the countryside is the region of rivers and lakes. Hangzhou is so near to us. But it is my first time here in Hangzhou to view its totally different sightseeing.

苏州、杭州乃是古人谓之人间天堂,江南文化的集大成者。有幸身处“城里有园林,城外有水乡”的姑苏平江,却从未尝仔细品味西湖余杭的“曲院风荷,断桥残雪”。恰逢罕闻酷暑,手头仍有多日年休,虽无法长途远涉,即驱车前往。

全程二百八十里,如此之近,路途畅通,午发未至。

此行全为散心,三日行程未作细化。其一,苏杭古今伯仲,行程目的性太强,难有惊喜;其二,随性而走,放松,无紧迫感,毕竟非远道赶场。

首 食在杭州

西湖醋鱼 名声在外的杭帮菜首,色浓、味重,与姑苏松鼠鳜鱼异曲同工。近代以来,沪上达官显贵纷以苏、杭为后花园,消遣娱乐。清末民初,鸦片烟馆林立,富家吸食鸦片摧残身心,味觉日益苦涩,需甜酸之味调剂。遂,大户门第菜肴均浓油赤酱,酸甜味气颇重。品味此道菜品,不由联想起沪上、苏杭当年的霓虹初上、富华奢靡的景象。

宋嫂鱼羹 似太湖莼菜银鱼羹,味偏酸,此道菜不甚能受。

东坡肉 “黄州好猪肉,价贱如泥土,贵者不肯食,贫者不解煮,早晨起来打两碗,饱得自家君莫管。”肉块方正,色泽晶莹剔透,肥不腻,老少皆宜。

烧田螺 虽无姑苏明前螺蛳赛鹅肉,但也鲜辣,大快朵颐。

其余菜色印象不深,唯有小吃“片儿川”,汤鲜、面劲道,且不起腻,小朋友连下小碗三四。

颔 行在杭州

杭州城,浙江首府。外地牌照限行,车让人,规章严明;但由于路道过窄且寸土寸金,车行不畅,午后三点即开始拥堵。对当地路况不熟,且知晓交规苛刻,在杭几日基本快车、专车、出租轮流来,也闻得司机师傅抱怨城市规划的种种不合理。想来,形色匆匆旅人只知杭城风光秀美,不晓杭城人的辛苦。

改革开放以来,浙江经济增涨速度远领全国,速度之快让这座古城被动扩张,地价飞涨。规划、设计远远赶不上腾飞的经济形势,遂给人拥挤、分化之感。且经济以外的因素,强加于杭州城,欲拔苗于一线之列,是怡是苦,只有杭城百姓知晓了。

颈 住在杭州

此行入住书香世家,地理位置佳,停车易。书香气息和这座城倒也搭配,安静,色调也淡雅。若非设施略老旧,定力荐诸位小住。


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假如爱情和梦想背道而驰 Give up your Dreams to be with Someone you Love

I took a deep breath before writing these words. After thinking over my past 28 years of laughter and tears, hard work and adventures, I still have no ides how to write down my impression about my dreams. Then I decide to write a film review about La La Land.

In the movies, Sebastian and Mia are attracted by each other as they have the same desire to success, and they enjoy doing what they love together. But when they face the choice to fulfill their dream or maintain their relationship, they choose to be apart. What impressed most is they promised to love each other forever at a romantic night before break up. The dreams they worked so hard to maintain in each other threaten to rip them apart. And after several years, they met up again when they all live the life they are purchasing in their past. They dreamed about what if they could maintain their love affair, and they will have a baby, etc …


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来到这个世界二十八载,我安于这样的生活,不艳羡别人所拥有的。读书时,总觉得自己是“燕雀焉知鸿鹄之志”中的“鸿鹄”,为了自己的理想努力奋斗着;工作后,甘于做只燕雀的,享受着悠闲的日子。希冀着能活成自己期盼的样子,一直到许多年许多年以后,白发苍苍的我跟好姐妹相约一起排队买打折的鸡蛋,一起跳广场舞,一起攀比着家长里短。 Continue Reading

和西子湖的亲密接触:泛舟西湖,登RMB景点 “三潭印月” Three Pools Mirroring the Moon

上有天堂,下有苏杭;
西湖出名人;
古有白娘子,今有阿里云;
古有绝恋曲,今出创始人;
人蛇之恋凄美悲凉,创业之路激情昂扬。

In the Song Dynasty, the poet Su Dongpo once wrote about the West Lake in his poem. He compared West Lake in Hangzhou to the famous ancient beauty Xi Shi. Nowadays, Xi Shi is mostly used to refer to a gorgeous female.

In the last decades, a little teenager has kept riding a bicycle around West Lake everyday for 9 years. He is Mr Ma, the richest person in China.

Today, I am here to share you with the most beautiful scene of West Lake.

古时有苏轼将西湖比西子,昨日有马爸爸骑9年自行车去西湖做翻译,今日听小女子娓娓道来这西湖之最。

路线:白堤-断桥-孤山- 春晓-三潭映月-雷峰夕照

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It is so hot summer in Hangzhou. And I am on my summer vocation. I have visited West Lake 5 years ago, but the sightseeing is still so attractive to me. But I need to mention that it has many more visitors there. Never go there at weekends.

炎炎夏日,十天年假,漫步西湖,虽是故地重游,依旧被西湖的美景所吸引。必须提醒的是,杭州跻身新一线之后,连工作日都是爆满的人人人。

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Happy Moments at Forest Water Park 夜访长三角最大的水上世界

Forest themed water park is a wonderful place to have fun with the family members at summer nights. My son really enjoy his stay as it has two chidren’s play areas, and many water slides for kids only. It also has large wave pool, and extreme racing slide for adults only ensuring a fantastic time for all ages. The forest water park is the largest in Yangtze River Delta Region. I have visited there once last month, see this post So Hot Weather? Have fun at Water parks here.

森林水世界号称是长三角最大的水上世界,上次白天暴晒的去过一次: 探访华东首个森林主题水上乐园,整个人晒黑了两个色号。这次是午夜场,晚上入园比白天便宜,特别适合昼伏夜出的我。夜场五点开始,我们下午五点半到的,两公里开外的马路上也全是停的车,基本都是外地车牌,不过还好停车场比较大,还有很多车位,不知道为什么大家都停在两公里开外的大马路上。

The lockers to store your valuables and the changing rooms are on the left hand. There are many individual rooms to keep some privacy in the changing room. You need to walk through a long distance Shiatsu sheet (same as the one in Running Man ) to enter the water park. It is really painful as we are barefoot. I suggest you to buy a waterproof phone bag to keep your phone clean. And there is no need to bring the swim ring as you could rent them at affordable prices. Continue Reading