5/30:3rd Anniversary

I have written something about our first and second wedding anniversary. It seems like a tradition to share something on the memorable day.

Youthful or inexperienced, I am learning to be a good wife and a good mum. I see decade-long marriages fail from our loved ones. Marriage is trying and growing together and growing to be a better woman is often uncomfortable or even painful. I have learned from the film Cinderella. “Be kind and have courage.” I am trying to be less selfish, more considerate, and always generously with love and kindness in our marriage.

I am not going to write a blog post to show off the happy marriage life as happiness is always in the other’s eyes. Instead, I am going to write the little things I love and the small things that count.

Ahem, and so I’ll begin.

Dear Ethan (Cheng, Orange, Husband),

I love that you’re a good dad to Ivan, though he clearly likes me more than you. Boys love mama when they’re still kids. He is learning from you everyday. I am glad of that as you would be a good example.

I love that you drive me to and from work for three years.

I love that you don’t complain when I let my dirty or clean clothes pile up in laundry baskets or in our bedroom.

I love that you are good at cooking lobsters. And when you tell me not to eat all of them after you finish the cooking. (Wink)

I love that you do me a favor when I am carrying a heavy shopping bag.

……

I love that, for the most part, you get me.

Love,

Hannah

I received a bunch of red roses for the first wedding anniversary. I would be excited if I can receive a gift for the 3rd wedding anniversary as there’s no gift for the second anniversary. Keep your expectations to a minimum and you’ll be less disappointed that way.

南京这座城

南京这座城 – 南京 – 慵懒的繁华 – 南京中山陵 – 野兔子流浪在南京

几日前,高同学问我是否还在南京。答不在呢。她挺想回母校一观。昨日,张同学又问我可想回南京。她愿陪我去。答:平日里,声声念念着想回去。此刻已不愿了。她问:南京让你伤心了。答:并无。只是觉得那么好的一个地方,当时当日竟未察觉是可以一生托付之地的。而此刻那地,于我已无落脚之地。况且正是昔日无限好,此刻再去席散人尽,人走茶凉。同个游客一样四处赶路,徒增凄凉与断肠之感。她又说,现在都不怎么记得以前的事。F同学连幼年之事的枝叶末节都记得一清二楚。恍若大梦一场,梦醒后空白一片。对南京也慢慢就徒存感觉,地名车路都要忘尽了。忽然想到,收藏了我曼妙年华的一城,要慢慢在我的意识里消失,实在不忍。强忍困意,也要好好完善此篇。

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转载:Dreaming Lu的顺产记

我的博客很少转载文章,基本上是记录自己生活的点滴。5.20那天小李子写了一篇她的顺产日记,看完各种抹眼泪的感觉。虽然我是剖腹产的,对她写的经历也很是感同身受。转载这篇文章,希望各位男同胞们,如果你还未婚,如果一个女人说愿意为你生个孩子,你一定要娶她。如果你已婚,如果你的老婆因为怀孕变丑变胖,也请你珍惜她,娶老婆是用来疼的。生男生女不重要,重要的是娃是你的,不是人家隔壁老王的。 Continue Reading

虎跳峡

传说中,有一只老虎从这里跳跃过江。

虎跳峡:续云南归来 +玉龙雪山,四千米处撒欢~

虎跳峡的海拔是2300左右~虎跳峡景区中接近九十度的勇者阶梯,对于略微恐高的我还是需要很大勇气,而且海拔还那么高,还得用力呼吸。关键是下去之后还得上来。下次去得要带双运动鞋,匡威神马的太坑爹了。

这要是掉下去~~~太可怕了~~~

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玉龙雪山,四千米处撒欢~

云南归来后续,整理一下玉龙雪山专辑。

正值五月当头,山脚下还是小短裙,山顶上,裹着羽绒服也瑟瑟发抖~看着满山的白雪皑皑,穿越了四季,惊艳了时空。

到处都是人头,排队排了一个多小时,浩浩荡荡的向4680进发。先是坐缆车,在缆车上看到有些踩脚点,应该是专业人士留下的足迹。下了缆车之后,寒风刺骨,往4680进军的路程并不远,来回估计一个半小时,但是海拔很高,各种缺氧,加头晕,咱们棒棒的小身板也有点喘不上气。 不过看到那个4680的石碑,感觉超级有成就感的,不上山顶非好汉的赶脚~

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How was your Labor Day Weekend?

其实最近也不忙,就是不想安安静静的写博客。又到五一,带着娃去了常州恐龙园,以后应该每年的五一都会带小Ivan来个小游玩。

早早的收拾出门,五一高速还是那么的堵,结果到了半路变成大太阳了,生怕晒黑Ivan,一直给他带着鸭舌帽。恐龙园到处都是140cm以下儿童不能乘坐,我们只有带着娃做旋转木马的份了。小家伙特别喜欢里面九曲十八弯的带有坡度的羊肠小道,我生怕他摔跤,一路都追着他跑,小娃以为我跟他玩你追我赶的游戏,越跑越得瑟!

一路上,小娃只肯让我抱,我带着大大的太阳镜没有注意脚下的减速带,一个箭步,脚踝就肿了,八天过去了,脚脖子还是很疼~

最惊天动地的是我因为脚崴了,去旁边的安踏买双运动鞋,小Ivan突然蹲下来了,我心里暗叫不妙,这可是要拉臭臭的节奏,因为天太热,没有给他穿尿不湿。等小娃长大了,我还要带他去恐龙园告诉他,你在这拉过臭臭~

晚上的恐龙园有花车表演,热情洋溢的老外们,秀色可餐的美女们。恐龙园的各个游戏房,在灯光的衬托下,特别像一个个魔法庄园,感觉哈拉波特随时从某个角落骑着扫帚出来。

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云南归来

去云南真心还挺远的,前年去法兰克福也才十来个小时,将近五个小时的飞机,感觉快飞出祖国母亲的怀抱了。后来到了昆明查了度娘,原来云南跟越南,缅甸是接壤的~(原谅我地理不好,我一直以为云南飞个90分钟就能到)

因为博友时间向东已经将他的丽江行,写成系列文了,再加上,回来有两天了,我的记忆已经开始模糊了,我就言简意赅的韶韶吧~

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